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Contessa Zoe Aspasia

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I’m experienced with many activities and deviations that I offer Professionally. I generally have a great stock of specialty scenes from my twisted imagination that I want to see played out that are posted on my site in various places.

I offer/ accept:
->Tributed Scenes and Sessions, Consulations (deposits)
->Snail Mail and Skype Filth
->Video/Photo Slaves for special documented scenes as written or described (no picking and choosing)
-> Financial slaves, Gifts, Shopping Slaves (online/ otherwise)
-> Treats for Olifactophiles- Panties, Socks, Sweat, Perfume, Spice (Find me also on
–>Duos with other Pro and Lifestyle Mistresses, Pain Sluts, Sissies

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I don’t offer/ Hard Boundaries:.
->Sex or Escort Services,”assisted release”, “sensual domination”, nudity or stripping. This is a CFNM situation.
->Intimate body worship (whether traditionally sexual or membranes, no nose, ear, eye licking)
-> Full toilet training, BS/Roman/Ruby/Red Showers, enemas, Brown play or diaper messing.
–> K9, Race Play, KOs, Castration Surgery, Bone Damage, animal crush, chemical play/inhalants
–>Competitive/Semi-Comp Wrestling, Lift and Carry, Muscle Worship

When I play (with tribute or without), I most enjoy a scene with several types of activities involved. With Sessions especially I am not a fan of a session focussing on one thing with nothing else- it’s not enough for me. If you are into feet, I’ll want you tied up, or wrapped, or cleaning filth from them while I read.. likewise you’ll have to work for buttplay.

In scenes I can be giddy and excited, serious and quiet, sneaky and bratty or indeed quite strict. If you are coming to see me, you could get any of these facets depending on the day. I don’t scream in sessions, I don’t punish with an angry voice, but I will call you on your crap, or maybe I’ll let you think you got away with it and mummify you as a spider queen to toy with my prey for stepping in the wrong spot. I don’t like to just sit there, I’m an active person. Multitasking sensations is one of my strengths and something I love doing. I believe that kink doesn’t need a dungeon by any means, though I enjoy them. I utilize several wonderful spaces in Toronto, some dungeons, some lofts, shops, sex clubs, coffee shops or hotels. I have specialty scenes as well that sometimes incorporte more that one space, scroll to the bottom of my Session page for my current Specialty Sessions list. I will generally post a blog a month with neat things I really want to play out, or note here things that I’ve been really enjoying:

05/15 : Grapefruit fucking with forced cum-sumption, Sock sensory dep mitties, Mummification/ Body Bags, Trampling, Ballbusting, Scissoring, Hot Peppers and Ginger, Water and Temperature Play, Sweet Food WAM, Painting, Parody, Ball Weights/ Water Weights, Balloons…

Most of the terminology below can be easily found through search engines if you are unsure of it’s meaning. Research and ask questions only after you’ve searched for yourself. Read, seek out articles, give yourself a base to work with so we can better communicate. Take responsibility for your journey.
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Foot and Leg Play:

Foot teasing * Foot and leg Massaging * Trampling * Facestanding * Boots-Stilettos-Sandals * Smelly/Dirty Feet * Shoe Worship* Leather Soled Shoes-Docs-Patent Dancer Shoes* Foot slapping/spanking *Toe Pinching *Foot Gagging * Socks: Ankle, Knee High, Thigh high, Tabi *Pedicure Lessons * Foot cleaning * Smothering *Scissoring *Stockings- Net, Backseam, Sheer * Pantyhose * Figure Four (Leg/Neck) * Shaving * Footless tights * Anklets/ Toe Rings * Smelly Sock Gags/ Blindfolds * Food Crush/ Pudding Foot/ Foot Feeding *Ball Busting/ CBT * Calf worship * Toe Painting WAM * Feet and Flapjacks *Shoe shopping * Sock Shows *Smelly sock take-out

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Smelly Socks * Filthy Panties * Human Laundry Machines * Smelly Smothering: Feet, Face-sitting, Armpits *Foot Cleaning * Olfactophile Testing/ Torture/ Teasing * Flasks/ Glasses /Bowls of Golden * Hair eating * Splooshing/ ABC Food * WAM * Neti Showers aka Nasal Douche * Golden Showers (via Whiz)/ Omorashi * Food force-feeding *Hardfetish Forcefeeding * Food Crush *Work out Wear * Spitting *Target Practice * Tea/ Pee Ceremonies *Pies * Pudding * Toe Painting *Throwing down the tarp and getting you covered * Painting with feet and food * Body art with food (best as a duo).

Humiliation and Slut Training: IMG_2085

Dress up: Panties, Nighties, Bodystockings, Stockings * Slutty Dance Lessons * S/O Sucking Training * SPH/ Small Penis Humiliation * Forced Bi Preparation * Shaving/ Grooming/ Picking/ Hair Cutting *Degrading Costumes *Nicknames *Circus Animal Training *Puppy Play *Girl Next Door catching the Pervert *Ruined Orgasm *Twisted Hentai Mistress * Anal Training/ Stretching * T & D * Villainess / Evil Scientist / Catwoman/ Club District Bitch * Make up: Proper, or Whore Lipstick * Gay Porn Watching/ Forced viewing with Taking your Holes * Golden/ Hard Fetish * Smelly Smothering * Human Furniture * JOI * Posture correction * Lady Lessons * Watching Iconic Cult classic/ Mainstream Gay/ Drag/ Lesbian films or seasons of RuPauls drag race, Making you fuck fruit, pudding pops, zoodles, jerk off to tiny bones I throw your tiny boner.

Torture, Pain Training and More:BunnyBallspreview

Breath Play: Scissoring, HOM, Figure Four, Face Sitting, Breast Smothering, Bagging/ Mummification, Latex, Hoods, Foot Smothering, Tape, Dunking, Timers, Wet Cloth/ Water Torture, Tickling

Spanking: OTK, Paddling, Foot Spanking, Hand Spanking * Hair Brush *Wet/Dry Hands * Strap * Spanking Bench

Corporal: Canes, Floggers, Whips, Paddles, Straps, Belt, Spoons (and giant spoon), Spatulas/Kitchen gadgets, Shoe Horns, Crops and more..

Pain/ Sensation Training: Percussion, Bastinado, Rubber Bands, Clothes Pins/ Pins, Games (Cards, Dice, Countdowns), Electro (TENS), Sharps, Cutting, Needles, Wax-Fire-Candles- Lighters, Hot Water-Temperature Play, Water Torture, kicking (barefoot, taped foot, boots), punching (hand wraps, MMA gloves, taped knuckles, bare hands), balloons and vibes, sensory dep, ginger/mint/ essential oil tingles

Restraints: Bondage, Hog Tie, Human Punching Bag, St Andrews Cross, Spanking Bench, Body Bag, Mummification/Saran, Basic Rope, Human Furniture Bondage, Bound to Chair, Arms Overhead, Lifted by the Balls, CBB and Stretching, Weights, Wresting Pins

Medical: Sharps, Stretching, Electro, Sounds, Eye Flushing, Foot Bondage, Anal Exam, Sensation Play, Humiliation, “Army Physical”, Cupping, Moxibustion

CBT: I LOVE it. Zipties, Chopsticks, Ball Busting, Trampling, CBB, Fire, Ice, Ginger, Sounding, Electro, Ball Scissoring (for special slaves), sensory dep, saran, wax, corporal tools, fly swatter, lets get those balls nice and purple and see how much abuse your cock can sustain and stay hard for me before I let you stroke your overly sensitive cock with textured slave mittens.

Other: Tickling (Nails, Feathers, Chains, Cloth), Temperature Play, Cold Showers, Neti & Golden Showers, Human Punching Bag, T & D,

Wrestling/Personal Training:  rsz_sf_aiden_the_top_secret_scissor_swat_unit

I was a session wrestler for a Decade. I no longer offer equal wrestling matches on the mats, Domination wrestling only: ragdolling, one-sided, forced yoga. You can still see scissoring videos of me around on  I offer Fantasy, Domination wrestling and Scissor Sessions. Pro Style / Greco-Roman, Scissoring and Leg Locks, Head & Body Scissors and Reverse, Breath Play, Smothering, HOM, Arm Bars, Chokes, Boston Crab, Camel Clutch, HammerLocks, Sleepers, Headlocks, Nelsons, Cross-Body Pins, Schoolgirl/boy Pin, Bow and Arrow, Simulated Back Breakers, Grapevines and Reverse, Triangle, Striking: Punches (Gloves, Taped or Bare Knuckles), Kicking, Stomping, Trampling, Foot Slapping

Personal Training: Crossfit, Cardio, Forced Exercise, Forced “Yoga”, Balance Trials, Stretching Buddy, Aerobic Weights, diet adjustments, habit changing/ forming, addiction work, self care, anxiety lessening, Negative or Positive Reinforcement : Corporal Punishment, Ass Kissing, Work out Sock Smothering, Face sitting smothering, Striking, Earning Toes to Suck * Long speed walks * Kinky hikes

Combine aerobic weights and cross fit with ball weights…Lunge for me in Latex…Stretch and push yourself in every way…


Hand and Nail / Glove Fetish, Human Punching Bag, Sneezing, Balloons, Cannibal fantasy, Pies, Shoe Shine, Scratching, Forced Laxative Humiliation, Ignore fetish, wallet rape and phone meddling, Financial creating new habits and training…. And much more…

Themes, Costumes and Suggested Scenes:

-Visit the bottom of my Session page

Western Domina with bitchin cowboy boots ready to trample you, use you as a human spittoon, breath play with my lariat, running spurs along your balls, training you with my cattle prod

Kitchen Bitch Dirty baking with me or for me or you to eat. Either twisted torte with hard fetish or maybe you straight up cook for me and face the taste test and backseat chef with punishment spatula. Clean my kitchen from top to bottom in a little apron, don’t spoil the roast because Mistress is coming home and will take what She wants from her otherwise useless maid. Forcefeeding you cakes and junk food, or drippy messy foods and sauces could mean your lucky day…maybe I’ll put you on a tarp and trash you with food and my piss as you writhe like a disgusting pig. Piggy needs to clean up their own mess. Maybe a puppy in my kitchen needs to be punished and eat scraps as I make myself something delicious.

The Queen: Grovel at my feet as I sit on my throne in furs and leather, mild- strenuous obedience training, doing everything for your Queen.

Hentai Mistress The anime schoolgirl or teacher abuses her new toy with mummification, spanking and dick slapping, golden, panties, cbt and nt, machines, odd anal experiments and vibes, cupping and suction vibes and more… Perhaps the slave must learn to prepare a perfect Green Tea or sustain incredible punishment and pain training during the creation of the perfect tea bowl.

Hard Wear: Pain training with items from a Hardware store- rope, clamps, sandpaper, tools, masks and more

Classic Femme Fatales: Vampress, Catwoman, Cleopatra, Greek Matron, Gothic Princess, Victorian Maiden, Mexican and or Competitive Wrestler, Twisted Anime Nurse, SWAT, Flightsuits, Secretary/Boss/ Teacher in pencil skirts, Fitness Teacher in lulu lemon, Spy or Evil Scientist, Cartoony Characters, Military, Mini Kimono, China Doll and more..

Animal Training: Puppy, Pony, Circus Animals, Collar and Leash, Dog dish feedings, playing fetch, costumes.. NO K9.

Transman Dom: What headfuckery is this? The Goddess in drag, suck my big black cock..

TankGirl/ Apocolyptical: Respirators, Goggles, bitch boots, jump suits, harnesses, interrogating you for information while you are intoxicated by my ass…

Canadian: Worshipping the Great Canadian Mistress, Hockey stick beatings, Double Doubles with Golden, Cream and, Filthy doughnuts, maple treats, smelly boot feet, electro, ice play

Sports Bitch: Wrestling, Human Punching Bag, Personal Training and BootCamp, Scissoring, School Pins, Body Bondage

Leather, Rubber, PVC: Oh yes, I have some stunning ensembles…and always up for more…

Girl Next Door: Jeans, shorts, casual dress, spitting, feet, spanking, faux smoking, feet

Club Bitch Clubwear and sparkly jewelry, humiliatrix, size queen, gum, smoke (electric), stilettos, perfume, lipgloss, Shopping trips online or in person.

Goth Girl Fishnets, platform boots, dark dark makeup, beginner “crazy goth gf” punishment, forced drinking, dread extensions, wigs, corsets

Captain / Cop Airplane/ Ship pencil skirt uniform / 50s Pin-Up Army, Cop with cuffs and baton, cattle prods and breathplay, capture and interrogation

Gamer Girl Ignore Fetish while I play games / Human Furniture / Punishment or reward based on how I play / Costumes / wigs

Spoil Me:
Visit my Adoration page to get an idea of the things I like. Do not bring me gifts you think I’d like- wrong size, wrong scent no no no. I make it easy with my wishlists and links to avoid that. I don’t need a lot of things, but the things I want fit right in to my closet. I’d rather fewer things of higher/rarer quality; things I will use and wear. As much as I use disposable things for sanitary reasons with play, I don’t like supporting “voting with dollars” for shitty products.